POLL: Who picks most of the fights/spats/quarrels between you and your spouse or s/o; you or your spouse|s/o?

My wife and I get along so well and never get into any fights or quarrels. I love her so much and would never do anything intentionally to upset or hurt her. She also does not nag me and never complains about anything and is a total joy to be with as she has a sparkling personality and a wonderful sense of humor. We area couple that really loves being together and hardly argue about anything at all if ever.